Sex Magic.
What is Sex Magic?
Using the power of your sexual energy to manifest what you desire in all areas of your life. Sounds great, right? Welcome to sex magic. Sex magic is a conscious practice where people use the energy produced through sexual intercourse and "direct" it to a specific purpose/intention.
Your intentions can be simple: abundance, great health, a job, a new home. What is it that you desire? Feel it in your body. How does it feel? How would it feel to have that in your life?
"Sex magic is a way of raising your creative, dynamic sexual energy and using that to fuel your intentions. Essentially, it's harnessing the feelings of your sexual experiences — all the tension, expectation, and pleasure that often comes with having sex — to focus on your desires. Think about it like making a wish when you blow out your birthday candle, except instead of using the excitement of your birthday to will your wish into being, you're using the pleasure of sex.”
Extract from “What Is Sex Magic? (It's A Lot Less About Sex Than You Probably Think)” by Kasandra Brabaw
How to Practice Sex Magic.
Sex magic generally looks like sex, but is done with mindful intentions.
Before lovemaking, set an intention. What is it that you would like to manifest? Have a discussion with your lover. Maybe write down your intention. You may have a joint intention, or have different intentions, and that is okay. Simply express your intention in the space.
Create a sacred space. Light candles, incense, clean the space - Palo Santo and Sage are beautiful energy clearing incense.
Begin the dance of love, and allow your sexual energy to move.
Hold your intention in your consciousness as you are coming to orgasm. Feel your intention, visualise what your life will be like once you have the thing you are calling in.
Surrender, let go, and allow the dance to keep flowing. Trust that what you need will be given to you.
You can also practice sex magic solo, by simply bringing an intention into your Mindful Self Pleasure practice. The power of sex magic can also be amplified by the moon cycle, with full moon and new moon being powerful energetic portals.
If you are a women, and you are menstruating, this also magnifies the effects of sex magic, so head over to my Bleed Rituals post, to find out more about harnessing the energy of the womb. So start experimenting with these different rituals, and see what they bring you. Notice how they make you feel.
Be curious and enjoy this yummy practice. I’d love to hear your thoughts, so if you’d like to contact me, pop me an email. I would love to connect with you!
All love
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